The Werewolf - The Toxic Friend

Published on 13 May 2026 at 1:00 pm

The thing about werewolves is that they never arrive snarling. They arrive as people: ordinary, harmless, even endearing. In daylight they seem soft around the edges, warm in their manner, woven seamlessly into your life with the ease of someone who feels safe.

But every werewolf has a moon, and when it rises, whether through jealousy, insecurity, alcohol, or stress, the transformation is instant. The person you trusted becomes the creature you never saw coming.

What makes a werewolf dangerous isn't the violence. It's the disguise. The human form is the mask: a performance of loyalty, affection, and closeness that conceals the volatility beneath.

They present as The Loyal One, devoted, attentive, inseparable. They make you believe you are chosen, needed, essential.

But the mask is camouflage. The loyalty is conditional. The affection is situational. The closeness is convenience.


I met my werewolf long before I knew her name would become symbolic. Let’s call her Kira — a name she once claimed for her future daughter, a name she guarded like territory — the kind a werewolf would snarl over if anyone else dared to use it. Back then, she looked harmless: funny, chaotic, a little strange, but harmless. I didn’t see the teeth. I didn’t see the moon. I didn’t see the creature waiting underneath the mask. All I saw was a girl under fluorescent retail lights at Brisbane DFO, dragging shoe boxes off shelves with a roller‑door pole and laughing like the world was hers.

She was impossible to miss: a big girl with tacky acrylic nails, a choppy blonde haircut, thick chocolate foils — the look every second Brisbane girl had in 2006. Overly polished, under‑styled, confident without grounding. Even then, she radiated a chaotic energy that made you wonder whether she was performing or simply built that way.

We were Christmas casuals at Steve Madden, both unserious about retail and even less serious about responsibility. I called in sick to work on Boxing Day because I was hungover. She refused because she “wasn’t available over Christmas,” which meant “I don’t feel like it.” Our manager must have had a gutful. I was a good worker who goofed around; she was bone idle. She wouldn’t climb a ladder — she’d hook boxes off shelves with the roller‑door pole, snapping lids like it was a sport. She spent most shifts on dating sites, stalking her ex on the store computer, years before smartphones made that kind of behaviour discreet. Safe to say we didn’t last long selling designer knock off shoes.

Kira carried the name like a badge, a prophecy — the same name she once reserved for her future daughter, and the name I’m using here in lieu of her real name. When her brother’s new wife named their dog Kira, she reacted as if a sacred object had been stolen. That territorial streak was the first hint of the creature underneath — the first sign that her loyalty was possession, not devotion. Her sister‑in‑law copped a rain of fire — she never tolerated anyone stepping onto her territory.

One night she gave me a lift home, and the friendship began. Not dramatic, not emotional — just a shift. The slide from acquaintance into something that felt like connection. Then we drifted. Life moved. Werewolves always return when the moon calls them back.

Years later, my partner and I crossed paths with her when we were grocery shopping at our local shopping centre, when she waltzed back into my life. She said she had been overseas, which sounded impressive until I learned “overseas” meant New Zealand. Hardly the Silk Road. But she delivered it with such worldly conviction you almost believed she’d been backpacking through Europe.

From there, the friendship intensified. She lived a suburb away. We became inseparable. People thought we were siblings; same colouring, same blonde hair, same chaotic energy. She was a beautician by then, unreliable and impulsive, one example was her having sex with men she met online in the treatment rooms of a laser clinic she worked at. Outrageous, disgusting — but back then, in those days, everything was funny.

She stayed at my house constantly. She had her own key. I made the guest room nice and comfortable for her — her “guest suite.” She wandered around nude, comfortable in a way that suggested intimacy, but intimacy wasn’t what she offered. She offered proximity. Werewolves love proximity. It gives them access. I became her crisis manager. Every bad decision with men became my responsibility to fix. She called me to advise, console, and eject men she’d invited over and then regretted. I thought it meant she needed me. Later, I realised she needed someone — anyone — to clean up her messes.

Her mother died of breast cancer during our friendship — a woman I adored. I flew to her hometown for the funeral, attended the service, held her through the fallout. I thought that meant something. Loyalty only matters to people who understand it. Werewolves don’t.

The first transformation came quietly. After dinner one night, I fell backwards off a stool and smashed through the oven glass, slicing my arm open. She drove me to the hospital — but only to the gate. It was raining. She said she was tired and needed to go home to bed. She left me there, bleeding, walking up the driveway alone. At the time, I didn’t think much of it. Later, a friend said, “who the fuck does that?” That was the first crack in the mask.

Over the years, the pattern sharpened. Kira’s possessiveness wasn’t limited to names. She claimed people, spaces, stories, emotions. Everything was hers until she no longer wanted it, and then it became disposable. She lied compulsively. She manipulated her parents for money, claiming she needed help with bills and then buying clothes the next day. She judged everyone. She dumped her emotions on me. She used my home as her base. She contributed nothing. She treated my generosity as her right.

When her partner cheated with their flatmate, I told her because I cared! I had evidence, actual photo’s very incriminating. She resented me for it. She moved into my home for three months, lolling around like the Queen of Sheba, bringing men over, contributing nothing, treating my space like hers. The werewolf cycle continued: affection, need, chaos, abandonment, return.

The final transformation came years later. She had a birthday gathering. She told me it was just her and her partner. The next day, I saw photos — cropped to hide the group she’d actually been with. On my partner’s Facebook, the uncropped versions told the truth. It wasn’t the exclusion that hurt; it was the lie. I confronted her via text. She panicked. She called. For the first time, I didn’t answer. Weeks passed. She never initiated contact. When I finally reached out, she minimised everything, as if my hurt was an inconvenience.

Then came the moment that sealed it: she sat in my kitchen with that smirk, laughing about the “pigmented coloured penis” of the man she would eventually marry. The disrespect was casual, thoughtless, absolute. She mocked him long before she chose him — a perfect example of how she treated everyone: disposable, replaceable, useful only when convenient.

By then, I understood her loyalty was never about me. It was about ownership. She didn’t want connection; she wanted possession. Possession is the werewolf’s favourite mask. When she met the man, she eventually married — a man she openly disrespected — she replaced me entirely. Not because he was better, but because he was useful. The werewolf had found a new victim.

What struck me most wasn’t the betrayal; it was the clarity. When you finally see a werewolf for what it is, the shock isn’t in the transformation. It’s in realising how long you mistook the creature for a person, how long you believed the mask, how long you convinced yourself loyalty was mutual. For years, I had been the stable one — the anchor, the safe harbour, the emotional scaffolding she leaned on whenever her life collapsed under the weight of her own decisions. I wore that role proudly because I thought it meant I mattered. I thought it meant I was chosen. I thought it meant I was loved.

Being needed is not the same as being valued. Being relied upon is not the same as being respected. She didn’t choose me. She used me. Not maliciously, not with intent — instinctively. The way a werewolf uses daylight to hide, the way a creature uses camouflage to survive, the way someone with no emotional loyalty uses the nearest stable person as a crutch. I let her. Not because I was weak, but because I was kind. Not because I lacked boundaries, but because I believed in people. Not because I didn’t see the signs, but because I didn’t want to.

There’s a particular grief in losing a friend who was never really your friend. It’s not sharp like heartbreak. It’s not loud like betrayal. It’s quiet — a slow sinking realisation that you invested years into conditional loyalty. You mourn the version of them you created, not the version that existed. I remember sitting alone after the final break, replaying the years like a montage — the sleepovers, the dinners, the crises, the laughter, the nude wanderings, the guest suite, the funeral, the hospital gate, the cropped photos, the pigmented penis joke. Each memory was a breadcrumb leading back to the truth: she had never been The Loyal One. She had only worn the mask.

Masks are designed to fall off. Kira’s fury over a dog sharing “her” name was never about the name. It was about territory — the instinct that governed every transformation she ever had. Her “moon” had always been insecurity — the kind that made her volatile, reactive, unpredictable. When she felt threatened, she transformed. When she felt judged, she transformed. When she felt replaced, she transformed. When she felt adored, she stayed human just long enough to keep you close.

The transformation was inevitable. It was patterned. It was her nature. Monsters don’t choose to be what they are. They simply are. The danger lies not in their existence, but in your refusal to see them clearly. In the months after the friendship ended, I realised something quieter and more important. The werewolf had not just taken from me; she had taught me. She taught me the difference between loyalty and dependence. She taught me the cost of emotional labour. She taught me the danger of mistaking proximity for intimacy. She taught me that being needed is not the same as being loved.

Most importantly, she taught me to recognise the mask. Every monster in this series wears one. The Siren wears beauty. The Vampire wears charm. The Poltergeist wears innocence. The Banshee wears vulnerability. The Shapeshifter wears whatever you need them to. The Werewolf wears loyalty. Loyalty without respect is possession. Affection without boundaries is extraction. Closeness without reciprocity is camouflage.

When I finally stepped back, I felt something unexpected: relief. Not anger, not heartbreak — relief. The kind that comes from stepping out of a storm you didn’t realise you were standing in. The kind that comes from seeing the creature clearly and knowing you survived it.

The werewolf didn’t destroy me. She revealed me. She showed me the parts of myself that were too generous, too forgiving, too willing to carry someone else’s chaos. She showed me the cost of being the stable one. She showed me the danger of mistaking emotional labour for connection. She showed me the truth about conditional loyalty. Once you learn that truth, you never unlearn it.

The real horror isn’t the transformation. It’s realising the human form was the mask. Once you see that — truly see it — you never fear the monster again. You simply walk away before the moon rises

Disclaimer: Names and identifying details have been changed to protect all parties, because some people don’t stay behind their masks once the cracks begin to show.